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LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Climbing in Memory

As we commemorate Law Enforcement Memorial Week and we reflect on the devotion and sacrifices there have been this past year, let us take the time to try to remember them in our own special way.  Many do parades or celebrations of life on the anniversary of a death of their loved one but Cops [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Simply Sunday

Today is not just another Sunday, today also marks the beginning of National Police Week 2012. Today the annual candlelight vigil is being held in Washington, D.C. Today we honor the fallen officers from across the country, the men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice. Today many mothers grieve and remember their lost child, [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: How Time Flies By

Yesterday was a big moment for my family. It wasn’t a graduation, or a birthday or holiday. We had a photo shoot, a family photo shoot. It was the first professional photo shoot we had planned since our wedding day. Nine years ago we both looked very different and we didn’t have two children. My [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: After the knock on the door

We each have our own fears and worries surrounding our LEO’s.  Some of us worry about a traffic stop going bad, others focus on the chances of a shooting, or a beating, or a car accident.  We each harbor the worry that it will be our officer that is seriously injured, or killed, in the [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: The Gathering

Last night I watched a horror unfold right in front of me. Tragedy struck Small Town, America and the media was on my computer relaying every event in ten minute intervals. I had four tabs on my screen, one for Facebook, one for Modesto, California, one for Orangevale, California and one for a New Hampshire [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Spring Break Revelation

 This week, this Spring break, has been the worse Spring break of my life!  If anything could go wrong, it would go wrong.  The alternator needed to be replaced, our son got sick all over the back seat of our other car, the weather prevented us from even attempting to drive over the pass again, [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Monday

Monday was just a day for us, what is considered a very normal day for most people.  We cleaned our house, washed the car in the sunshine, and practiced our golf swings in the backyard.  As we sat on the couch later that evening, with my feet tucked under my husband to keep them warm I couldn’t [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Family Isn’t Just Blood

One night as my husband was working the night shift and I was asleep, I was dreaming about smoke and suddenly I awoke to the cries of my daughter from her room. I opened my eyes and there was smoke so heavy in my room that I couldn’t see in front of me. I panicked [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Spring Cleaning Our LEO Life

Spring is here!  The flowers are blooming, the trees are dancing, and the grass is getting greener again.  (Unless you live in Northern Nevada and the grass is still brown!)  I am so ready to start Spring cleaning and get rid of the old and dust out the bunnies and just generally get our house [...]

LIFE BEHIND THE BADGE: Dancing With My Father

I remember dancing with my father when I was a little girl.  I would carefully stand on the toes of his shoes, and feel his large hand grasping mine, and I would concentrate fiercely on staying in step with him; even though I knew if I ever stepped off the top of his feet his [...]